A list of 14 Novels about Friendship For Adults

  1. The Secret History by Donna Tartt

    Set within an exclusive New England college, this novel draws you into a close-knit circle of classics students whose intellectual camaraderie curdles into something far darker. The story is told by Richard Papen, a newcomer mesmerized by the group’s charisma and intellect.

    As their academic pursuits escalate into moral transgression, their loyalty is tested by shared guilt and paranoia. Tartt masterfully dissects how intellectual elitism can warp companionship into a toxic codependence, proving that secrets can forge bonds as strong—and as destructive—as any love affair.

  2. A Little Life by Hanya Yanagihara

    Following four college friends as they navigate careers and relationships in New York City, A Little Life is a profound and unflinching examination of enduring devotion. The narrative centers on Jude, whose traumatic past is a constant, shadowy presence.

    His friends—Willem, Malcolm, and JB—form a protective circle around him, their bond tested by the profound weight of his suffering. This is an intense, often devastating look at the resilience of friendship in the face of unimaginable pain and the quiet heroism of showing up for those you love.

  3. Crossing to Safety by Wallace Stegner

    Spanning several decades, this novel chronicles the quiet, abiding friendship between two married couples, the Langs and the Morgans. Meeting in academic circles during the Great Depression, their relationship deepens through shared triumphs, professional jealousies, and personal sorrows.

    Stegner eschews high drama for the subtle, powerful moments that form the bedrock of a lifelong bond: quiet support, unspoken understanding, and unwavering affection. It’s a gentle, deeply moving portrait of a friendship that weathers life’s storms with grace and integrity.

  4. My Brilliant Friend by Elena Ferrante

    Set against the backdrop of a poor neighborhood in postwar Naples, this novel begins the saga of Elena and Lila, two girls whose lives are inextricably linked. Ferrante charts the magnetic and often-painful orbit of two women whose identities are forged in both fierce opposition and unbreakable devotion to each other.

    Their friendship is a complex tapestry of intellectual rivalry, fierce loyalty, and simmering envy, demonstrating how our earliest bonds can shape our ambitions and define our sense of self.

  5. The Interestings by Meg Wolitzer

    A group of teenagers meets at a summer camp for the arts in the 1970s, christening themselves "The Interestings." Wolitzer’s novel follows their lives over the next four decades as the realities of talent, money, and luck diverge.

    The novel offers a sharp, compassionate look at how youthful bonds are strained by adult envy, compromise, and success—or the lack of it. It’s a deeply relatable story about the challenge of sustaining friendships as the people we once were evolve into the adults we’ve become.

  6. Swing Time by Zadie Smith

    Two biracial girls in London, the unnamed narrator and her friend Tracey, bond instantly over a shared passion for dance. While their backgrounds are similar, their talents and life trajectories are not. Their complex relationship, marked by rivalry, admiration, and betrayal, unfolds across continents and decades.

    Smith expertly investigates how formative childhood friendships leave an indelible mark on our identities, exploring the intricate ways race, class, and ambition can both unite and divide us.

  7. Lonesome Dove by Larry McMurtry

    At the heart of this sprawling American epic is one of literature’s most iconic friendships: the bond between Augustus "Gus" McCrae and Woodrow F. Call, two aging Texas Rangers. Their personalities are a study in contrasts—Gus is loquacious and romantic, while Call is stoic and relentlessly driven.

    As they embark on a perilous cattle drive to Montana, their decades-long friendship, built on shared history and unspoken understanding, serves as the novel’s anchor. It is a monumental story of male companionship, loyalty, and the ties that endure at the edge of the frontier.

  8. The Group by Mary McCarthy

    Following eight Vassar graduates from the class of 1933, this novel was a groundbreaking social commentary on the lives of educated women navigating careers, marriage, motherhood, and sex in a world not yet ready for them.

    Their friendships, forged in the idealistic bubble of college, become both a vital support system and a source of friction as they confront the often-disappointing realities of adulthood. McCarthy’s witty and unflinchingly candid prose offers a sharp portrayal of friendship’s power and fragility against a backdrop of immense societal change.

  9. Big Little Lies by Liane Moriarty

    In a wealthy seaside town, the lives of three mothers—Madeline, Celeste, and Jane—collide at school orientation. What begins as a tentative alliance forged over playground politics quickly deepens into a fierce bond of mutual support.

    Moriarty expertly peels back the layers of their seemingly perfect lives to reveal private struggles and hidden secrets. The novel is a compulsively readable blend of humor, mystery, and sharp social observation, ultimately celebrating the powerful solidarity that can arise when women choose to defend one another.

  10. Commonwealth by Ann Patchett

    An illicit kiss at a christening party fractures two families and binds their six children together for decades. Commonwealth skips through time, exploring the complex, shifting allegiances between the Keating and Cousins children, who are forced into a new blended family.

    Patchett sensitively explores how this shared trauma creates a unique and insular bond, one that is revisited and reshaped throughout their lives. It is a masterful story about how relationships born from crisis evolve with time, forgiveness, and the stories we tell about ourselves.

  11. Shotgun Lovesongs by Nickolas Butler

    This novel centers on four childhood friends—a farmer, a rock star, a stockbroker, and a rodeo cowboy—all tied to the small town of Little Wing, Wisconsin. Despite their divergent paths, they are drawn back into one another’s orbits for a wedding, forcing them to confront old grievances and reaffirm their deep-rooted connections.

    Butler captures the unique texture of small-town friendships and the enduring pull of a shared history. The narrative beautifully illustrates how these bonds can bend and fracture under pressure but ultimately provide a profound sense of belonging.

  12. The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini

    Set in Afghanistan, this powerful novel tells the story of the intense friendship between Amir, the son of a wealthy merchant, and Hassan, the son of his father's servant. Their childhood bond is shattered by an act of betrayal that reverberates across decades of political turmoil and personal exile.

    Hosseini’s novel is a wrenching exploration of guilt, loyalty, and the possibility of redemption, demonstrating how the ghosts of our formative friendships can haunt us and shape the entire course of our lives.

  13. Brideshead Revisited by Evelyn Waugh

    This classic novel nostalgically recounts the intense, formative friendship between the narrator, Charles Ryder, and the charming, decadent aristocrat Sebastian Flyte. Their bond, forged at Oxford, grants Charles entry into a world of wealth, beauty, and Catholic tradition that captivates and ultimately transforms him.

    Waugh elegantly chronicles how this intoxicating friendship is strained by family, faith, and personal decline, creating a poignant and melancholic reflection on youth, love, and the indelible imprint certain people leave on our souls.

  14. Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood by Rebecca Wells

    When Siddalee Walker clashes with her dramatic mother, Vivi, she is sent a scrapbook detailing the adventures of the “Ya-Yas”—Vivi and her three lifelong best friends. Through flashbacks to their spirited youth in rural Louisiana, the novel celebrates the fierce, unconditional, and often hilarious nature of female friendship.

    It’s a warm and engaging tribute to the bonds that see women through marriage, motherhood, and sorrow, proving that friendship can be the most enduring love story of all.