A List of 11 Books about Grief and Loss

  1. The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion

    Joan Didion documents the year following the sudden death of her husband, John Gregory Dunne, while their daughter is also critically ill. With surgical precision, she dissects the "magical thinking" of grief—the self-deception and intellectual loops the mind creates to evade the finality of loss.

    This is a brilliant, clinical, and profoundly moving examination of how sorrow derails rational thought.

  2. Hamnet by Maggie O’Farrell

    Maggie O’Farrell reimagines the life and tragic death of William Shakespeare’s eleven-year-old son, Hamnet. Rather than focusing on the famous playwright, the narrative centers on his fierce, ethereal wife, Agnes, and the devastating impact the loss has on their family.

    It is a visceral and lyrical portrayal of parental grief, rendered in evocative prose that makes the historical feel immediate and deeply personal.

  3. A Grief Observed by C.S. Lewis

    Originally published under a pseudonym, this collection of journal entries documents Lewis’s raw, unfiltered experience after the death of his wife. It is a work of staggering intellectual and spiritual honesty, dissecting the anatomy of loss as Lewis confronts the cratering of his faith and the disorienting reality of mourning.

    The book is less a guide and more a stark companion for anyone who has felt abandoned by logic and God in the face of sorrow.

  4. Grief Is the Thing with Feathers by Max Porter

    Blending prose, poetry, and play script, Max Porter tells the story of a grieving father and his two young sons after the sudden death of their mother. Their mourning is visited, and inhabited, by a mythical Crow—a trickster, therapist, and chaotic force that personifies grief itself.

    The book is a startlingly original and deeply felt exploration of loss as a wild, messy, and ultimately transformative presence.

  5. Lincoln in the Bardo by George Saunders

    Set over a single night in a cemetery, this novel follows Abraham Lincoln as he visits the tomb of his young son, Willie. The story is told through a chorus of ghosts residing in the "bardo," a liminal space between life and rebirth.

    Saunders masterfully weaves historical fact with supernatural fiction to explore the overwhelming nature of personal grief against the backdrop of national tragedy, questioning what it means to truly let go.

  6. Wave by Sonali Deraniyagala

    Sonali Deraniyagala provides a harrowing, moment-by-moment account of losing her husband, her two sons, and her parents in the 2004 Indian Ocean tsunami. Wave is an unflinching and courageous memoir that refuses to look away from the sheer horror of such a loss.

    It maps the terrain of a life completely remade by tragedy, exploring the jagged edges of memory and the agonizingly slow process of survival.

  7. The Lovely Bones by Alice Sebold

    Narrated by fourteen-year-old Susie Salmon from her personal heaven, this novel follows her family’s struggle to cope with her murder. Watching from above, Susie observes their varied journeys through grief, rage, and the desperate search for justice.

    Sebold’s unique perspective highlights how a single tragedy can irrevocably reshape family dynamics while exploring themes of memory, healing, and connection after death.

  8. Crying in H Mart by Michelle Zauner

    Musician Michelle Zauner, of the band Japanese Breakfast, chronicles the experience of losing her mother to cancer. This memoir is a tender and powerful exploration of grief through the lens of food, culture, and identity.

    Zauner movingly illustrates how cooking the Korean dishes of her childhood became a vital way to mourn, remember, and preserve her mother’s legacy.

  9. A Monster Calls by Patrick Ness

    Thirteen-year-old Conor O’Malley is grappling with his mother’s terminal illness, a truth so terrifying he can barely admit it to himself. He is visited nightly by a monster—an ancient yew tree—who tells him stories that force him to confront the complex, messy, and often contradictory emotions of anticipatory grief.

    This is a profound and compassionate look at the anger, guilt, and fear that accompany the impending loss of a loved one.

  10. Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close by Jonathan Safran Foer

    Nine-year-old Oskar Schell embarks on a quest across New York City after finding a mysterious key belonging to his father, who died in the 9/11 attacks. The journey becomes Oskar’s inventive and poignant way of processing an incomprehensible loss and maintaining a connection to his dad.

    Through its unconventional structure and a uniquely precocious narrator, the novel explores the private grief that echoes within a public tragedy.

  11. The Song of Achilles by Madeline Miller

    While a sweeping epic of love and war, the final act of this novel is one of literature’s most powerful depictions of grief. After the death of his companion Patroclus, the demigod Achilles is consumed by a world-altering sorrow that drives him to rage, vengeance, and ultimately his own doom.

    Miller renders his grief with an intensity that feels both mythic and devastatingly human, showcasing how loss can become the sole motivating force of a life.